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		<title>By: Josten</title>
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		<dc:creator>Josten</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2009 21:28:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i agree with you 100% about how positive thinking gets a bad rap. More people need to understand the difference between positive thinking and wishful thinking.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i agree with you 100% about how positive thinking gets a bad rap. More people need to understand the difference between positive thinking and wishful thinking.</p>
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		<title>By: Christoph Dollis</title>
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		<dc:creator>Christoph Dollis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Apr 2009 09:23:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ray,

What were your thoughts when you checked out Stone?

Christoph</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ray,</p>
<p>What were your thoughts when you checked out Stone?</p>
<p>Christoph</p>
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		<title>By: Christoph Dollis</title>
		<link>http://theaffirmationspot.wordpress.com/2008/06/13/positive-thinking-versus-wishful-thinking/#comment-1291</link>
		<dc:creator>Christoph Dollis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Nov 2008 04:49:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Ray,

Stone coined the phrase &quot;Positive Mental Attitude&quot; or PMA.

As a child, he grew up with a wonderful single mother, but was poor. They ate puffy rice, for example, and he sold newspapers at 6 to help get money.

This catapulted what would eventually be a sales and business career in insurance (started by his mom when she bootstrapped herself from seamstress to sewing business owner to eventually buying a small insurance company).

Over his life, W. Clement Stone &lt;i&gt;gave away&lt;/i&gt; $277 million dollars for a variety of causes mental health, politics, and more. He lived to be 100. His wife, Jesse, 2 years younger than him, also lived to be 100.

That&#039;s right -- both centenarians. And he dropped out of law school to marry his wife because he&#039;d learned what he needed and because he felt his wife would be a great positive influence on him. She was.

He was a huge believer in what he called &quot;self-motivators&quot;. You would call them affirmations, but they weren&#039;t necessarily in the &quot;I...&quot; format.

He&#039;s ALSO famous for, &lt;i&gt;&quot;Do it now!&quot;&lt;/i&gt; his favourite self-motivator. He would pick an inspirational phrase, idea, or command, and repeat it out loud to himself with energy 40-50 times 2-3x/day. He&#039;d pick a different one every 7-10 days or so. This, he felt, allowed him to memorize it and for it to come to mind when needed. Things like, &quot;A deal&#039;s a deal, and a promise is a promise.&quot;

What&#039;s more, when building his insurance empire he published a newsletter with self-motivators and other success ideas for his sales force. Many of his salespeople became rich and happy, not necessarily in that order (PMA, remember).

Stone later teamed up with Napoleon Hill to write, &lt;i&gt;Success Through a Positive Mental Attitude&lt;/i&gt;. Hill agreed to work with Stone on the condition that Stone agree to be Hill&#039;s business manager. That worked out well too: We hear more of Hill than of Stone!

If you listen to the audio program I mentioned in my first comment, you&#039;ll get an enormous kick out of it. You can buy it on MP3 online, or if you want you can listen free on YouTube as much as strikes your fancy &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=egyG6Q3uSUs&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;.

&lt;i&gt;Unfortunately,&lt;/i&gt; you miss out on a fabulous audio forward by Og Mandino that is worth listening to. Find the MP3 for that. Mandino said he owed his later happiness success after post WW2 financial failure and alcoholism to Stone&#039;s philosophy of positive mental attitude.

Keep up the great work, Ray, and best of success!

&lt;strong&gt;Response:&lt;/strong&gt;

Chris,

Thank you very much for the detailed information on Stone. One of my own &quot;motivators&quot; is that I get up each day to learn something. Today, thanks to you, I have. We certainly do walk in the footsteps of remarkable people, don&#039;t we?

Have an amazing week!

Ray

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Ray,</p>
<p>Stone coined the phrase &#8220;Positive Mental Attitude&#8221; or PMA.</p>
<p>As a child, he grew up with a wonderful single mother, but was poor. They ate puffy rice, for example, and he sold newspapers at 6 to help get money.</p>
<p>This catapulted what would eventually be a sales and business career in insurance (started by his mom when she bootstrapped herself from seamstress to sewing business owner to eventually buying a small insurance company).</p>
<p>Over his life, W. Clement Stone <i>gave away</i> $277 million dollars for a variety of causes mental health, politics, and more. He lived to be 100. His wife, Jesse, 2 years younger than him, also lived to be 100.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s right &#8212; both centenarians. And he dropped out of law school to marry his wife because he&#8217;d learned what he needed and because he felt his wife would be a great positive influence on him. She was.</p>
<p>He was a huge believer in what he called &#8220;self-motivators&#8221;. You would call them affirmations, but they weren&#8217;t necessarily in the &#8220;I&#8230;&#8221; format.</p>
<p>He&#8217;s ALSO famous for, <i>&#8220;Do it now!&#8221;</i> his favourite self-motivator. He would pick an inspirational phrase, idea, or command, and repeat it out loud to himself with energy 40-50 times 2-3x/day. He&#8217;d pick a different one every 7-10 days or so. This, he felt, allowed him to memorize it and for it to come to mind when needed. Things like, &#8220;A deal&#8217;s a deal, and a promise is a promise.&#8221;</p>
<p>What&#8217;s more, when building his insurance empire he published a newsletter with self-motivators and other success ideas for his sales force. Many of his salespeople became rich and happy, not necessarily in that order (PMA, remember).</p>
<p>Stone later teamed up with Napoleon Hill to write, <i>Success Through a Positive Mental Attitude</i>. Hill agreed to work with Stone on the condition that Stone agree to be Hill&#8217;s business manager. That worked out well too: We hear more of Hill than of Stone!</p>
<p>If you listen to the audio program I mentioned in my first comment, you&#8217;ll get an enormous kick out of it. You can buy it on MP3 online, or if you want you can listen free on YouTube as much as strikes your fancy <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=egyG6Q3uSUs" rel="nofollow">here</a>.</p>
<p><i>Unfortunately,</i> you miss out on a fabulous audio forward by Og Mandino that is worth listening to. Find the MP3 for that. Mandino said he owed his later happiness success after post WW2 financial failure and alcoholism to Stone&#8217;s philosophy of positive mental attitude.</p>
<p>Keep up the great work, Ray, and best of success!</p>
<p><strong>Response:</strong></p>
<p>Chris,</p>
<p>Thank you very much for the detailed information on Stone. One of my own &#8220;motivators&#8221; is that I get up each day to learn something. Today, thanks to you, I have. We certainly do walk in the footsteps of remarkable people, don&#8217;t we?</p>
<p>Have an amazing week!</p>
<p>Ray</p>
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		<title>By: Christoph Dollis</title>
		<link>http://theaffirmationspot.wordpress.com/2008/06/13/positive-thinking-versus-wishful-thinking/#comment-1290</link>
		<dc:creator>Christoph Dollis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Nov 2008 05:00:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ray, I was just listening to W. Clement Stone&#039;s audio recording of &lt;i&gt;The Success System that Never Fails&lt;/i&gt;.

According to Stone, &lt;b&gt;&quot;A positive mental attitude, PMA, is the right attitude in a given environment or situation.&quot;&lt;/b&gt;

That is a wonderful definition. And this is a wonderful post!

I think you hit the nail &lt;b&gt;exactly&lt;/b&gt; on the head and elaborating on it beautifully. From Stone&#039;s definition or your expanded description one could have a positive mental attitude at golf, business, love, the grocery story, as a soldier on a battlefield, while a doctor performing surgery, or blogging.

It doesn&#039;t even limit one to pleasant thoughts although they should predominate most of the time for this is the very definition of happiness, which contributes enormously to success not to mention to a *cough* positive attitude.

&lt;strong&gt;Response:&lt;/strong&gt;

Hey, Chris

Thanks for taking the time to leave such an insightful comment. The idea for this article came from the way I often see positive thinking portrayed in media. It seems to be generally scoffed at, i contend, because it is really wishful thinking being portrayed. 

So many peoples&#039; lives could be different, if they focused on keeping their thoughts positive and took action on them.

I am not familiar with Stone&#039;s work. I will have to look into. Thank you for the information.

Stay inspired!

Ray</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ray, I was just listening to W. Clement Stone&#8217;s audio recording of <i>The Success System that Never Fails</i>.</p>
<p>According to Stone, <b>&#8220;A positive mental attitude, PMA, is the right attitude in a given environment or situation.&#8221;</b></p>
<p>That is a wonderful definition. And this is a wonderful post!</p>
<p>I think you hit the nail <b>exactly</b> on the head and elaborating on it beautifully. From Stone&#8217;s definition or your expanded description one could have a positive mental attitude at golf, business, love, the grocery story, as a soldier on a battlefield, while a doctor performing surgery, or blogging.</p>
<p>It doesn&#8217;t even limit one to pleasant thoughts although they should predominate most of the time for this is the very definition of happiness, which contributes enormously to success not to mention to a *cough* positive attitude.</p>
<p><strong>Response:</strong></p>
<p>Hey, Chris</p>
<p>Thanks for taking the time to leave such an insightful comment. The idea for this article came from the way I often see positive thinking portrayed in media. It seems to be generally scoffed at, i contend, because it is really wishful thinking being portrayed. </p>
<p>So many peoples&#8217; lives could be different, if they focused on keeping their thoughts positive and took action on them.</p>
<p>I am not familiar with Stone&#8217;s work. I will have to look into. Thank you for the information.</p>
<p>Stay inspired!</p>
<p>Ray</p>
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		<title>By: Cheyenne Morgan: Life Mastery Unlimited</title>
		<link>http://theaffirmationspot.wordpress.com/2008/06/13/positive-thinking-versus-wishful-thinking/#comment-814</link>
		<dc:creator>Cheyenne Morgan: Life Mastery Unlimited</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Jun 2008 17:10:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ray,
I enjoy writting to you! I love to surround myself with positive people! Sorry for spoiling the blog a little bit! What our companies are doing is amazing! Positive thinking for me has led me to &quot;take action&quot;. It is so important in today&#039;s world that we not only teach our children the outcome that is available from using affirmations in life, but also keep learning ourselves! Keep up the good work! 

Cheyenne Morgan</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ray,<br />
I enjoy writting to you! I love to surround myself with positive people! Sorry for spoiling the blog a little bit! What our companies are doing is amazing! Positive thinking for me has led me to &#8220;take action&#8221;. It is so important in today&#8217;s world that we not only teach our children the outcome that is available from using affirmations in life, but also keep learning ourselves! Keep up the good work! </p>
<p>Cheyenne Morgan</p>
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		<title>By: Ray Davis</title>
		<link>http://theaffirmationspot.wordpress.com/2008/06/13/positive-thinking-versus-wishful-thinking/#comment-813</link>
		<dc:creator>Ray Davis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Jun 2008 12:29:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Cheyenne,

Thanks for the comment. Very good thoughts all. You stole my thunder a bit, as today&#039;s blog was going to be on this very topic.

I think The Secret is doing a lot of good for a lot of people. For that, it is a blessing. 

I&#039;m so glad The Secret has empowered your thoughts and encouraged you to take action. 

Thinking and action are the twin foundations of success, peace of mind, and happiness in life. Getting your thoughts flowing in a positive direction, what your company and mine are about, is the first step. 

However, we live in a world of action and when the thoughts are not followed by action we can wind up getting stuck.

The Secret is a wonderful doorway to introduce people to these concepts. From its success, I think it is unequaled since Peale&#039;s The Power of Positive Thinking in its impact on society.

What you are doing at Life Mastery Unlimited is such important work. If children can be taught these principles early in life, it will save them a lot of heartache in learning the hard way as so many of us have.

Peace and continued success to you and your company.

Ray</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Cheyenne,</p>
<p>Thanks for the comment. Very good thoughts all. You stole my thunder a bit, as today&#8217;s blog was going to be on this very topic.</p>
<p>I think The Secret is doing a lot of good for a lot of people. For that, it is a blessing. </p>
<p>I&#8217;m so glad The Secret has empowered your thoughts and encouraged you to take action. </p>
<p>Thinking and action are the twin foundations of success, peace of mind, and happiness in life. Getting your thoughts flowing in a positive direction, what your company and mine are about, is the first step. </p>
<p>However, we live in a world of action and when the thoughts are not followed by action we can wind up getting stuck.</p>
<p>The Secret is a wonderful doorway to introduce people to these concepts. From its success, I think it is unequaled since Peale&#8217;s The Power of Positive Thinking in its impact on society.</p>
<p>What you are doing at Life Mastery Unlimited is such important work. If children can be taught these principles early in life, it will save them a lot of heartache in learning the hard way as so many of us have.</p>
<p>Peace and continued success to you and your company.</p>
<p>Ray</p>
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		<title>By: Cheyenne Morgan: Life Mastery Unlimited</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cheyenne Morgan: Life Mastery Unlimited</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Jun 2008 02:35:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Positive thinking to me is being able to take any situation in life and &quot;find the positive&quot;! Take the recent death of Tim Russert for example. It is a tradjedy that he had to pass on in such short notice, however, I like to think that he was like a father to many of us and that we can &quot;find the positive&quot; in his passing. His death taught me that we need to live each day as if it were our last. I know a lot of people say that, but really, we need to take in and savor every single moment in our lives because we never know what could happen. I was introduced to the movie &quot;The Secret&quot; about a year ago, and being able to change my ways of thinking into a possitive enviornment has changed my life and now I am working to help empower others! I work for a company called Life Mastery Unlimited. The CEO of the company designed a child&#039;s empowerment program called &quot;The Secret to The Unlimited Child&quot; Our goal is to empower humanity one child at a time! You should check out the website and pass the word on! It can never hurt to help the world! Best wishes!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Positive thinking to me is being able to take any situation in life and &#8220;find the positive&#8221;! Take the recent death of Tim Russert for example. It is a tradjedy that he had to pass on in such short notice, however, I like to think that he was like a father to many of us and that we can &#8220;find the positive&#8221; in his passing. His death taught me that we need to live each day as if it were our last. I know a lot of people say that, but really, we need to take in and savor every single moment in our lives because we never know what could happen. I was introduced to the movie &#8220;The Secret&#8221; about a year ago, and being able to change my ways of thinking into a possitive enviornment has changed my life and now I am working to help empower others! I work for a company called Life Mastery Unlimited. The CEO of the company designed a child&#8217;s empowerment program called &#8220;The Secret to The Unlimited Child&#8221; Our goal is to empower humanity one child at a time! You should check out the website and pass the word on! It can never hurt to help the world! Best wishes!</p>
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		<title>By: The Law Of Attraction</title>
		<link>http://theaffirmationspot.wordpress.com/2008/06/13/positive-thinking-versus-wishful-thinking/#comment-806</link>
		<dc:creator>The Law Of Attraction</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jun 2008 18:49:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Absoutely. Positive thinking changes your life. its called the &#039;Law of Attraction&#039;. Like attracts like. We dwell on negative experiences we care negative experience, it becomes a viscious circle. What do we want, Success, Happiness, Friends, Love. If we can see it and feel it, we can achieve it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Absoutely. Positive thinking changes your life. its called the &#8216;Law of Attraction&#8217;. Like attracts like. We dwell on negative experiences we care negative experience, it becomes a viscious circle. What do we want, Success, Happiness, Friends, Love. If we can see it and feel it, we can achieve it.</p>
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